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Posted: Wednesday, Jun 04, 2008 - 11:13:08 pm PDT
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Boys & Girls Club

Opportunity to bring life-changing power

In the spring of 1959, I was a student at Our Lady Help of Christians Catholic School on Chicago's west side. I was in the eighth grade and less than two months from graduation. One day after school, some friends and I met on the corner of Chicago and LeClaire avenues to hang out in front of Widder's Drug Store to pitch pennies; a game in which each player throws, or "pitches," a penny toward a line drawn on the sidewalk.

Whoever pitches a penny closest to the line wins all the pennies. We were concentrating hard on the game so we didn't notice the police car that had pulled up to the curb next to us. I looked up to see a huge Irish cop climb out of his patrol car and lumber over to where we were squatted on the sidewalk.

He told us in a friendly voice that we were gambling on his beat and he wouldn't stand for it. His message, while kind, scared us enough to put our pennies away. He asked our names and where we lived, recording the information neatly in his black leather-bound notepad before folding himself back into his police car and disappeared around the block.

My friends and I sat on the sidewalk discussing this encounter before deciding it was safe to continue our game. The big policeman must have sensed that we might ignore his warning because he reappeared a few minutes later.

This time his friendly warning was replaced with a stern order, "Get in the squad car." I sat frozen and terrified in the backseat as we headed west on Chicago Avenue, past the street I lived on. I remember thinking that jail would be better than the beating I was sure to get when I got home.

We arrived at the Austin Police Station where the cop herded us past the desk sergeant, up to the second floor and into a huge room with a large boxing ring in the center surrounded by punching bags, free weights and other gym equipment. He suggested we take a look around the place, turned to leave and returned after a few minutes wearing sweat clothes.

"This is the Boys Club of North Austin," he said. "If you ever need a place to go after school, it would be much better for you to come here."

Because he had our names and addresses, he said, he would add us to the Club roster. We never went back to pitching pennies on the street after that. Instead, we spent our afternoons at the Boys Club where we learned how to box and how to be men in a much different setting than the rough classroom of the street.

I was the first member of my immediate family to become a policeman; a fact that I'm sure was influenced by the cop I met in 1959. By 1991, I was promoted to Captain with the Chicago Police Department and was given command of the station where my life changed so many years ago. I remember when the police department began talking about the need for community policing, I told this story to remind people that community policing was alive and well, having started many years before in the form of the Boys Club of North Austin.

We have an opportunity to bring the same kind of life-changing power that I experienced in Chicago to the children of our community. The Boys and Girls Club of Kootenai County will be a learning center where kids can be part of something positive.

But there is much to do before we begin construction of the new Club facility in August 2008. We need the passion and dedication of our community if we hope to see the dream realized.

Every donation counts, no matter how small. Your financial support will help build this positive place for our kids. Please send in your support check today to Boys & Girls Club of Kootenai County, P.O. Box 3598, Post Falls, ID, 83877 or call Ryan Davis for more information (208) 661.9316.

Information: www.northidahobgc.org


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Proud Participant wrote on Sep 16, 2008 8:47 AM:

" thats too bad some people dont get the moral of this story. Its not about cops or brainwashing its about keeping or kids off the streets and in a positive enviorment so they dont end up in the back seat of a cop car! Also this program has a lot to offer, I have 7yr old twins,and this program has family orenitated and community orentatied functions and a VOLUNTEER base of wonderful men women and young adults dedicating there time to help OUR children. They help with homework and teach kids about respect and honesty and compassion. For peolple like me this is absolutly awesome. I work fulll time 6 days a week and although my kids are at school most of the day I value greatly the effort these people with the Boys and Girls club are doing with my children. And to be honest my children love it, Alot better than Daycare as as they get older they dont want to be at a daycare with infants and toddlers they want to be with kids there same age and older learning, and playing. This program is a selfless program asking only $20 year to join and no one is turned away for not having the money.(saving hard working $ for things like rent and food)instead of spending on average $750 month on daycare!! The local club is NOT in a police dept but is currently at a church in Post Falls, however if our community would step up and help out we would have a wonderful location thats safe for our children. This program has proven time and agin that it is suscessful at detouring our kids from drugs, gangs, violence, and problems with the law. I know here in Kootani Co. people think we are safe but Ive got news, Spokane is so close and CDA is growing all those negitive influneces are filtering into our community. Lets start early and keep our kids safe, because I would say its only a matter of time before all the above are part of our everyday enviroment as our community continues to grow in size. "

No thanks wrote on Aug 25, 2008 9:55 AM:

" Great a club where cops can brainwash our kids to be just like them..!! Think I will start teaching my kids how to pitch pennies today..!! "

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